Perempuan ni memang complicated but yes, just org yg btul2 sayang je mampu terus bertahan n cuba untuk paham perempuan yg dia sayang walaupun banyak benda dia kena hadapi n handle..kalau yg x sayang tu, lepas 5-6 kali gaduh, da angkat kaki sebab xtahan....
for me, perempuan ni memang susah nak paham tp the main key is patient....bersabar melayan segala kerenah n perangai perempuan...kenapa choose untuk xnak paham sbb lambat laun kau akan kahwin jgak ngan pompuan (melainkan kau da xckup akidah nak kawin sejenis..hahahahaha)....
bagusnya korang melayan n bersabar dengan segala kerenah perempuan sebelum kawin sbb lepas kawin nnty at least korang da paham sedikit sbnyak tentang si dia...biarlah korang bergaduh berpuluh kali pun yg penting korang tau n masak dengan perangai org yg kau sayang tu...n xde la lepas kawin baru nak rasa tertekan dengan perangai dia sebab korang da paham banyak tentang dia dari awal...
untuk pengalaman aku, aku da pernah bergaduh dengan tunang aku start kitorang kapel smpai la skarang, boleh katakan more than 30 times...bnyak kali hampir putus but I just ignored her request to end up our relationship coz i know she just want attention from me...she did not mean it at all...
every time she said she wanna break up, what i do just ignore her at least for a few days until she look for me (call berpuluh kali n spam kat whatsapp)...on that time, i know she badly need attention from me...on that time, I tried talk to her slowly, apologise if i did anything wrong even though i knew that i did nothing...cause apologise is the main key every time u are in argument with ur partner and never be so EGO...then believe me, after all the talks, she will be okay afterwards and everything solved...
korang xperlu nak jd romantik sngat time mmjuk...boleh n itu sbenarnya bonus to be romantic but enough just by showing ur effort...sbb most of women want to see ur effort..thats all...tapi kale orang da berkali-kali pjuk n still xjalan, just don't contact her sampai la dia sndiri cari korang..dia xkan cari korang n trus okay...dia akan cari korang n cari pasal n ajak gaduh..itu mksudnya dia nak attention je and masa tu korang guna peluang pjuk dia lagi sekali sebab on that time, she are not mad at u anymore but she really want ur attention.
tu je kot aq nak share...tu dari pengalaman aku sendiri la...alhamdulillah so far kami still together eventhough we have so many arguments...remember the key point is PATIENT...
bye and Assalamualaikum
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